Successful Approach: Talking To A Hot Girl

Just think about the last time you saw a fine-looking woman while you were out in the day time...and you would have really liked to talk to her and get her info, but you just weren't sure how to break the ice and make it happen?

See, most guys fail to take action because they're worried about what they're going to talk about with her. Possibly this guy feels semi-comfortable with the idea of introducing himself to girls in bars, but when it comes to "day approaches," he doesn't have the nerve, or the skills, to walk up to her and make it happen.

The reality is that when it comes to approaching a woman during the daytime...whether it's on a street corner, or at the beach...the typical guy freezes up because he's concerned that if he approaches, the woman will feel uncomfortable and blow him off.

I've got the answer to this problem. First, you've got to stop worring about having long, drawn-out conversations with girls you've just met. All you need to do is focus on getting her information (name, phone number & email address). Then you're going to END the conversation and contact her soon to get to know her better.

The reality is that you will rack up many MORE phone numbers and dates if you learn how to get a girls number FAST.

The more time you spend trying to chit-chat with a girl you just met, the greater the possibility that she will disqualify you because you say something ill-advised, or you do or say something that cools off her interest in you.

The next thing to bear in mind: always carry a pen and a small pad of paper in your pocket. This is a good idea for a few reasons, and one of them is because it makes getting a girls number and other information much easier.

Here's how you do it. You simply notice a detail about her appearance, or something she is doing at the moment. Maybe she's wearing an eye-catching piece of jewelry, or a nice dress or stylish pair of jeans. She could be carrying a cool-looking cell phone.

Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to pick up something similar for a female friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. "Hey, I couldn't help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to find a gift, I think she'd love something like that...where did you get it?"

This "detail" can be anything. If she's shopping at the supermarket, you can notice something she's got in her cart and say, "Pardon me, I need to bring a dessert to a dinner party I'm going to tonight, and I'm wondering if you have a suggestion on something that's easy to make, but delicious."

Let's look at another example. If you'd like to know how to approach a woman at a bookstore (and obtain her number), use the same principle: "Hey, is that book you're reading any good? I'm trying to pick out a birthday gift for a friend -- she's a girl the same age as you -- and I'm wondering if you've read anything really good lately?"

You let her give her answer, talk to her about it for a few minutes, and then you say, "I appreciate your advice, I'm going to go pick that up for Jennifer. Hey, do you have an email address? I'll let you know if my gift gets a good response."

The woman will nearly always say "yes" to this. (The "email" question is great, because everybody has email, right? Now you're going to treat it as if she OFFERING to give you her email.)

Now take your pen and pad of paper, and hand it to her. Act like this is completely natural. No big deal.

Then, as she jots down her email address, you say "write down your number also. And I didn't catch your name..."

By acting as if it's totally normal for you to give you her personal info, she'll feel perfectly okay doing so. She won't question it.

It's when you ask women PERMISSION things that you might encounter some resistance. So, never ask permission when you want to get a girls number -- or for that matter, when you ask a woman for anything at all. You want to always encourage girls to go along with your flow. Just assume she wants to give you her info, and she most likely will give it you.

Now that you've got her information, you can get in touch with her again. As fas as WHEN and HOW you're going to contact her -- and how you're going to set up the "next meet" -- I've got some great tactics for that, also.

Learning how to approach women and get phone numbers is just one of the hundreds of skills you'll want to master. And as for how you're going to set up this "next meet" with her, I've got some extremely powerful methods to ensure your success...

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