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Rejection comes in many forms. There is the polite and firm ‘no’ and there is the subtle ‘no’. Then there is ‘maybe’. This third one is perhaps, most difficult to deal with, since the mixed signals could foster some hope that the situation may yet be turned around. When flowers, phone calls, text messages, baubles and the occasional serenade haven’t worked, perhaps it’s time to try synthetic human pheromones. The human body is known to secret some synthetic human pheromones in the sweat glands. These neurotransmitters affect the recipient’s behavior, primarily acting as sexual attractants. How can you be sure that your sweat glands are exuding the right stuff? You can’t really, unless you are using pheromone formulations from a reliable source. So after you’ve done your due diligence and you’re still not feeling the love, take another reading of the situation. If you observe some or all of the following, it might be time to move on. • If the object of your affection can find time in her big busy schedule for three-hour mani-pedi-shampoo-style sessions but she can’t pencil you in for half an hour at Starbucks, alarm bells should be ringing. If it seems like she can make time for everyone except you, then the message is, you are so far down in her food chain of concerns. She might not get to you in this lifetime. Time to give it up and jump back in the dating pool. • Assuming your persistence pays off and you manage to score a date, but she spends the time texting, admiring her nails or playing ‘Angry Birds’ on her android, she’s really not into you. When women sense potential in their date, they spend the time gathering information to file for future reference. So unless your story has been in “Vanity Fair” recently, your date’s inattention is a sure giveaway that it might be time to update your profile on the dating websites. • When you’re spending some alone time with her and she allows, even encourages, girl friends, kids, dogs and the pizza guy to interrupt, she probably has moved on but you just don’t know it yet. An interested woman would value your time together. She would plan, prepare and relish these special times. If she‘s not showering you with the attention you deserve, it’s time to cut your losses and go hang with the guys and their Buds in their man caves. • If she unfriends you on Facebook or won’t respond to your friend requests on LinkedIn, that should be an obvious sign that you’re not in the circle of trust, probably not even in the circle of interest. Refrain from writing that overwrought email. Focus your efforts on something productive. • You call her and the number has been changed. You never got that mass email advising everyone of her new contact information. No, it’s not a glitch. It’s intentional and she’s not being mean to you. You probably crossed the line between fatal attraction and criminal stalking some time back. You really need to get a grip and let this one go. Because pheromones attract are sex specific and each produce unique effects, the synthetic chemical content of pheromone cologne differs. Some may contain androstenone that is found in both men and women but is more predominantly male. These formulas give the wearer a dominant, aggressive, and slightly intimidating aura that drives sexual attraction and enhances others respectful actions. When you sense that she’s really not into you, don’t take it as an affront to your charming personality. You can’t let one rejection destroy you when there are other opportunities. It’s a big, wide world filled with seven billion people. Keep on trying.
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