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Have you ever been in a romantic love & then broken hearted? Broken hearts make you afraid & trauma to build a new relationship? So, how to heal your broken heart? A broken heart (or heartbreak) is a common metaphor used when a human being suffers an emotional or physical loss, to the extent that it begins to cause them physical or physiological pain. Your heart was breaking because you ever been in love & happy in your love, but now you are meeting situation that someone you love has changed & not suitable for you. Don't worry about that. A broken heart actually can get up, leave this bad history, & build a new relationship. A relationship is a connection between people. Relationship is about giving each other 50/50. No one can always right. Someday they will get wrong too. You have to understand about it. You give your strength to fulfill your couple weakness. Your couple gives the strength to fulfill your weakness too. That is a good relationship. "Get up after broke". It's easy to say but hard to practice it. Many people feel hard to get up after they fell because they always look beneath; they always feel about their falls & solve the problems emotionally & angry each other. You can't solve the problems if you use your emotion to think & your brain to follow your emotion. If you get broken heart, just take a longer breath & blow slowly. Do it 3 times. You can also take some cool water to refresh your face. It will help you to muffle your anger. If you do it, you will feel fresh. If you feel fresh, you can think & make the right decision. If you have a traumatic experience about your broken relationship, think that everybody is not same. You have to consort with many people to understand that everybody have unique behaviors. Some are good person, and the others are bad people. If you feel something wrong with your partnership, solve the problem as soon as possible. If you wait to solve until next time the problem will be bigger. And it will be a time bomb that can blew out at any time. You will get the serious broken heart. You and your couple will accuse each other. So, it's easier for you to realize & solve the problem now than you will get hurt tomorrow. If you think it's not good to continue your relationship, discontinue your relationship soon. Discontinue doesn't mean that you stop/broke your relationship. It prefers you avoid building deeper relationship with him/her. Just be a friend without deep relationship. Maybe you will feel hurt to discontinue, but a little hurt is better than you will broken heart tomorrow. Suwarnaadi, is a happy couples therapist. He also provides free MySpace love graphics for you to warm up your relationship.
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