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Sipping your hot steamy coffee and leaning back in your chair to read a good book some beautiful young ladies sit next to you chattering about all the trivial events in their lives. You peak over the top of your book and watch them without trying to appear as though you are looking too intently. One of the young ladies gives you a small smile and continues chatting with one of her friends. You are thinking to yourself, “Wow, I would love to meet a woman like this”. The problem is that you aren’t sure how you are going to make that first contact. Eventually you will be able to develop an immediate and warm relationship but you have to swallow your fear and go for it. Your fear is that simply by saying “hi” someone may not respond appropriately. Instead of being friendly they will blow you off like you aren’t worth a whole lot. This can be quite aggravating to guys who only want to learn something about the person in the first place. Unfortunately too many women have not learned to reject someone with politeness. The key to finessing a way to find an opportunity to introduce yourself to a women is to do so in a non-threatening manner. This means you should not ask them out directly but instead ask them if they have a recommendation on a movie, where did they purchase their laptop computer or where a good place to eat is. The question doesn’t need to be important because they will respond positively if they are interested. By utilizing this non-threatening approach is that if they do give you a dirty look or partially ignore you then you know that you aren’t going to get anywhere and you didn’t even have to jeopardize your fragile ego. Remember that you were only asking about something unimportant. It isn’t your fault she has no manners. Dating doesn’t have to be a win or lose situation if you do it correctly. You don’t have to put yourself entirely in jeopardy by saying, “would you like to go out on a date?”. By first testing the water and asking, “That is a nice handbag where did you get it?” they will either respond with interest or blow you off. You are still intact, you learned the person isn’t opening to meet new people and probably isn’t the right person for you in the first place. Visit http://www.blogpublishingandmarketing.com and http://www.thenewbusinessworld.blogspot.com and http://www.datingdesires.blogspot.com and http://www.fitnessanddietblog.blogspot.com and http://www.marketing-masters.blogspot.com
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