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How a man thinks? What dream influences him the most? What they want? Let’s explore about the desires of men in this article. No, you won’t find any information concerning any spell to hypnotize a man, but the complexity of a man’s brain is the primary essence of this article, hence to discuss. This is true that almost all of us have a fair idea about what a man wants in general. However, both of this idea and the formation of the desire are exclusively dependent on the cultural setup and environment – thus, relative in nature. Additionally, language and lifestyle also affect the thought pattern quite a great extent. Still, if we summarize what a man desires from his life partner, we may develop the following list: 1. Must have a clear, independent and unique thinking pattern and decision-making ability. 2. A man, in general, shows his interest towards the needs of his partner. 3. The woman of preference must adore his sense of humor and appreciate whenever needs. 4. Man wants validation. He needs appreciation of his works and actions. A man, originally from his instinct, understands the woman of his preference who can validate him, appreciate him, fulfills him – who can honor his ego. 5. Quite secretly but prevalently, a man desires to be treated like a ‘kid’ sometimes with his woman of preference as he had been treated by his mother. 6. A man is succumbed to his self-pride. Initially he tries to hide (deny) this factor from everyone around, and then from himself as well. However, the complex nature of the man propels him to desire the woman of preference must understand and nourish his ‘self-pride’. Author John Gary, who has composed the best-selling piece “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, describes a good relation as the acceptance of differentiation. A woman wants his man to develop more, whereas the man wants her to accept it as it is. He does not desire her unwanted advices. He considers it as criticism. Whenever, a woman speaks about a problem, the man gets biased and considers him involved with the same. Thus the author suggests, whenever a problem is to be placed in front of a man, it needs to be placed in such a manner so that he assumes himself as the solver of the problem. It is due to his instinctual belief in his ‘manly’ ability. The problem, he finds beyond his limitation to solve, is considered as nothing but a mere wastage of time. But, as per woman psychology is concerned, woman has an inclination towards discussing about problems till it gets solved. A man can feel that a woman is like a wave –sometimes it is on high, and sometimes it gets low. When it gets low, she needs the utmost care of her man. This is the high time when the appeal of a man works best in a woman’s life and psyche. However, a man loves to be attached by woman, desires to be accompanied by woman, longs to be cared by a woman. But apart from that, he also desire more – he wants recognition from outside world, he looks for professional establishment. This is true that a man maintains all his responsibility, care and passion for his woman in addition to his attraction towards external world, satisfying his workaholic attitude and dreams of fulfillment. Visit http://www.blogpublishingandmarketing.com and http://www.thenewbusinessworld.blogspot.com and http://www.datingdesires.blogspot.com and http://www.fitnessanddietblog.blogspot.com and http://www.marketing-masters.blogspot.com
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