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PUA text messages are either helping you or hurting you. If you do it the right way, you can easily build attraction. If you do it the wrong way, you can easily destroy attraction. The PUA text messages outlined below describe texts that work and texts that don't with explanations of why. PUA text Messages That Work I just read something that got me thinking of you When you send her this text message, not only is it a slick way to kick off the text conversation, but it's also an effective way to immediately spike up her curiosity by making her want to know more. Hey, I'm wondering if you can keep a secret... This PUA text message is effective for at least 2 reasons: 1) it is the ultimate setup for a “yes” response and 2) after she gives you a "yes" response, you can text her, “Shhh, you can't tell anyone about this…I got to know this girl named (her name) who is quite nice. But she is kind of weird and I think she only thinks of me as a piece of meat.” Help me! Help me! Beer or liquor? Beer or liquor??? When you send her that text message, she could be wondering “Umm...what?” But it's ok, in the end, she'll start having fun and she'll pick one or the other. After she texts back, ask another question along the lines of “Draft or bottle?” End the conversation by texting her "Thanks!" when she answers your second text and do not send her any more texts.. Yes, you are acting random, but you are also coming off as unpredictable which is 100x better than sending her a text that all of those other guys send her. I really like it every time you Don’t finish your text message on purpose. You take control of the conversation anytime you start a text and don't finish it since she is going to be wanting to know your next text. The same thing can be done with stories, which can be even more powerful. When she’s begging you to tell her the story's ending, suggest that she get you a drink sometime by saying “Ok if you promise to buy me a cup of coffee this Thursday night, I'll tell you the story's ending.” Wow...I had no idea you were this boring. You're supposed to be more entertaining. It's not a bad idea to fun of her a bit because now she must meet your standards and now she must try to win you over. Everything's so much less complicated when you have the power an not her. PUA text Messages That Don't Work Did it hurt when you fell from heaven? Unless you’re making a joke out of it, a corny pick up line will almost never work as a text. Always remember: do not send her a cheesy pick up line as a text message. Please go out with me? Keep yourself from asking a girl to go on a date with you through text for at least 2 reasons: 1) you leave the ball in her court indefinitely whenever she doesn’t give you an answer and 2) you put unnecessary pressure on her anytime you call a date a date because rather than making it casual, you're making commit to something that she’s probably not even sure about. Wow One word text messages are useless. It’s more effective when you don’t answer back at all because rather than you picking up your phone, she'll be looking at her phone every 15 minutes to see if she got a text from you. Text me back now please. Asking her for an answer is desperate and needy, and the more you ask her to send you a text back, the more reason it gives her not to. Project that you have more important things to do with your time apart from waiting for her response. Hi, I always use the full 160 characters whenever I send text messages. Obviously that's not a text message you would send (I hope), but what I'm suggesting is that you should mirror her texts and not write never ending texts. If you see her using 20 characters, then you use 20 characters. You'll want to keep the long messages handy for when you're either talking to her on the phone or talking to her in person. It’s important that you can tell the difference between the PUA text messages that you should send and the PUA text messages that you shouldn't send. It’s also important that you use these PUA text messages for what they are: good examples. Good examples that you could personalize to put together your own set of texts that work well for you.
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