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If you are reading this now, chances are you have been trying various ways to save your marriage but are unable to. You are now starting to get desperate. If you have children and love them very much, you will be feeling many times worse as apart from divorce, you also risk losing their custody. Instead of telling what you should and should not do as I already done so in my previous articles, I decided to tell you a story of how my friend saved his marriage in a rather unusual and unconventional way. One that very few people have heard of let alone trying. Before proceeding further, I need to make it very clear that I am not a psychologist or marriage expert. But rather I want to share you with the information that I hope can help you and make a difference in the way your spouse and everyone else around look at you no matter how bad the situation might be. 3 years ago, my friend’s wife suffered post marriage depression. Since this happened for about 2 years since their marriage, my friend can still tolerate her mood swings and do everything to make her happy even till she hardly smiled but simply kept quiet once she was out of tantrums. The reason why she suffered depression is not because she was upset with my friend as her husband. Neither was it her job as an accountant. But rather in a marathon organized by her company when she accidentially fell and hurt her body wrist. Upon seeing the doctor, she was told that she had a miscarriage and might not be able to give birth. She was totally shocked as she never expected herself to be pregnant so soon after marriage. But that was hardly a surprise to me and others because of their frequent sex during their dating. Like most women, children meant a lot to her. She loved children since she had done many charitable work as volunteer at nursing homes and kindergartens before. Given the fact that most of her friends already had children, she start feeling pressured and intimidated. She wanted to adopt children initially but faced objection from her parents. These events eventually made her angry, frustrated, humiliated and eventually isolated from everybody. So much so she suddenly suggested divorce to my friend. My friend was shocked and devastrated. He did not realize her moodliness could drive her to such an extent. Worse still, he was not even given a chance to find out her root problem let alone explaining. But having watched numerous dramas and movies on romance and family drama, he realized that the usual begging and pleading was not going to work at all. Neither was getting his friends to help because deep inside his heart, he knew very well that he still had to talk to his wife alone however great his friends’ advice was. So he did what most people would never do or even think was crazy. He simply kept quiet about it. He never talked or even asked her anything. But his instinct based upon what he saw would tell him that she would get mad if he kept asking or begging her. He decided to give himself and his wife to calm down. That was in front of his wife. Behind her, he approached and confided in a few of his friends he trusted and felt completely comfortable with. One of them – who was a marriage counsellor – gave him this book called Save My Marriage Today. Upon reading that book, his mind was totally blown away. He began to realize why his wife was feeling that way even without her telling him verbally. In a nutshell, the book totally enlightened him. But he did not read at home in front of his wife. Rather he took it with him and read at lunch break or shortly after knocking off from home. Still he wanted additional advice. So he sought help from the author Amy Waterman via email. Using what she advised and taught him, he took notes and applied all those proven and tested strategories in the way he approached, talked and listened to his spouse. In a short space of time, he finally managed to turn his marriage round and today they were living happily with a son and daughter. Though the change did not happen overnight, it happened gradually and made a difference in his life. My point of telling you this is that if you have a similar marriage problem, you are not and should never be alone to handle it. You need enlightenment and advice from those who are already experts in that field and take action. If my friend can save his marriage, so can you. Period. Discover how Save My Marriage Todayhave greatly helped my friend and those with similar problems here.
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