Tips On Approaching Women At Your Work

It's been gratifying to watch very introverted students of mine, who were once scared to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach masters" who were able to meet new women every day (even just walking down the street!) and constantly score digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.

But a guy's level of confidence can take a lethal hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the task of approaching an extremely gorgeous hottie.I'm not talking about an everday woman here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of babe who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the vicinity to stop and look.

So is there a way to boost up your chance of strong results with this kind of female? The answer to this, actually, is not that difficult: you're doing to utilize the exact same approach techniques that I tell my students to use with any female, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" techniques to get her engaged in the interaction with you, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.

So what are Cold Reads and Teases, exactly? Well, they're two very dominant strategies that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For now, the short explanation is that Teases are playful things you say to women to "mess with them" a little bit, and plant the idea in their mind that you're NOT intimidated or super-impressed by them.

When you tease a babe (the RIGHT way), you're framing the interaction as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which prompts her to treat you in the same manner. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a while, you're obviously going to tease and joke around with that person. By using Teases with a scorching-hot woman, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her attractiveness and you are relating to her as a normal person.

Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude acts when he is talking to a stunning babe. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so frightened of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!

Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really awesome. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.

A good Cold Read makes you look unbelievably perceptive and it instantly creates a bond between you and the stunner. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS profound, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to start the conversation -- and there are tons of these in my book -- you'll use a Transition strategy to move things onto the right topic. Then, you can bring into play Teases and Cold Reads:

Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the focus and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they first meet you. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are."

This Cold Read works extremely well with really hot females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really sexy females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often desperate to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, and so on.)

It really isn't hard to learn how to approach women. Whenever you blend these techniques with other effective conversational moves, you have the formula for an interaction that will trigger all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go.

So, come to our website and download our free seduction guide, which is absolutely jam-packed with tips on how to get girls. In under one hour you can learn how to approach women in any situation, without anxiety and with total confidence.

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