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Compliments for girls only work in certain circumstances: 1) when she is currently attracted to you, 2) when the compliment is rather subtle and unexpected, and 3) when you’re presently in a relationship with the girl. When she is currently attracted to you The success of a compliment is essentially centered on when the girl is or isn't attracted to you. When she is not attracted to you, compliments can decrease your attractiveness. Supposing that the girl you are complimenting is either extremely hot or in high demand, offering her a compliment will label you as unoriginal and predictable. Mainly because they have hardly any alternative techniques of attracting attractive girls, unoriginal and predictable guys overly compliment in exchange for attention from girls that are already used to receiving compliments from all the other guys she's surrounded by. If she is interested in you, compliments could boost your appeal. In this case, you can decide if you want to compliment or not compliment at all depending on whether you want her to be more or less interested in you. Typically, if the girl likes you presently, and if you would like her to like you more, you are able to slip in a compliment occasionally, but don’t overdo it otherwise the compliments will begin to seem unnatural and they are going to lose their effectiveness. When she likes you already, but if you don't want her to like you more, do not compliment her in any way. Complimenting her only will mislead her to resentment which can not just get her on your bad side, and also the 20 other girls who she tells. When the compliment is rather subtle and unexpected Subtle and unexpected compliments for girls work if you are generally known to not give out compliments and if you have known her for a while. The point is, if you do compliment her, you should do it sparingly and only after you're comfortable with her and she is comfortable with you. The compliment will come as a pleasant surprise for her. However, if you compliment too early on, and if you both are not familiar with each other, saying something such as “You are so beautiful,” runs you the potential risk of instantly decreasing your value to her since you just gave her everything that she wanted and everything that she expected. After she knows that you like her, the game will cease to become fun for her. Make her work for the compliment. When you're presently in a relationship with the girl If you are already in a relationship with her, this is when you could and should truly compliment. This has a lot to do with if she is already interested in you. When you’re currently in a relationship with the girl, then obviously she is already interested in you. The truth is, girls love compliments. They want you to compliment them. But does that mean you need to always feed them what they want, when they want it? No. This is because women (and men) want what they can’t have. But if you have her and she has you already, it is okay to compliment when appropriate, but once again, don’t overdo it. Want to discover the secret to successful dating? Andy Yang is giving away a FREE 7 Part eCourse on how to be successful at dating for a limited time. Click Here to get yours today! To learn more about compliments for girls, visit Andy Yang's blog by clicking here. Copyright © 2011 EffectiveAttraction.com All Rights Reserved.
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