How To Approach Girls Like A True Pick Up Artist

With that said, here are some tips on how to approach girls at bars:

1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You certainly don't need to be tall and well-built to attract women, but you absolutely must be clean, well-dressed and most importantly well-groomed. One of the "Ten Mack Commandments" in the Mack Tactics book says that "The First 60 Seconds Are Everything," and this means your appearance must be on point -- because the girl you approach will immediately evaluate it. If you haven't updated your wardrobe in a long time, go to the mall and have one of the cute salesgirls help you pick out some new threads. Then, go to a proper hair salon (not a cheap barber shop) and get your hair styled. Make sure that you wear good cologne and not the cheap kind if you want to pick up girls at bars.

2. From the moment you want into the bar to start picking up girls, you should project confidence. Even if you're shy and nervous, you still need to pretend to be confident. Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. Also keep in mind that most of the other guys in the bar are just as nervous as you -- if not more so -- when it comes to approaching girls and trying to start a conversation. Even if you're faking a good deal of your confidence at this point, you've going to have more success picking up girls than the guys who can't get a handle on their nervousness.

3. You're going to have to learn how to approach women if you're going to successfully pick up girls when you go out. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Women usually go to bars with their friends, so don't be intimidated about approaching a group of women and engaging them in a conversation. Smile, deliver your opener, and then transition into your first topic of conversation (when you use "Mack Tactics," the process should be a seamless flow). If she (or the group) is not receptive, don't try to force it. Just move on to another prospect. And stop worrying about being "rejected," would you? Tell yourself that there are two types of women in this bar tonight: FUN and BORING. The fun girls will want to talk to you, because you're a fun guy; the boring girls won't want to, but they're boring anyway so who cares. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. And when approaching girls who are in a group, be equally charming to all of them. Don't make it obvious which girl in the group is your target.

4. My next piece of advice: stay positive during the conversation. Only talk about the positive things in your life and not the negative ones. She didn't spend all that time tonight perfecting her hair and makeup, and trying on five different outfits, so that she could come out tonight and talk about boring, depressing stuff. She's here to have fun! You simply need to be the guy who provides FUN in order to make her want to be with you.

5. Never be loud, aggressive or hostile towards other guys when you're out to pick up girls. It's cool to enjoy yourself and be energetic, but you don't want to be that annoying guy who gets on everybody's nerves. Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But when it comes to picking up girls in bars, you shouldn't let yourself become too drunk.

6. Pay careful attention to the people around you, and the social interactions of others. Make it a habit to watch how girls behave in bars -- when they're socializing with their friends, and when they get approached by random men. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. So, slow down your pace and don't worry about "making your move" the moment you see an attractive girl. Think like a chess-player and always have your next several moves plotted out in your mind. Becoming a master at picking up girls requires patience, discipline, and most of all PRACTICE.

These were a few basic rules about how to pick up girls. Now, if you're ready to learn the EXACT openers that I use to "break the ice" with hot girls and start conversations, click here and download this free guide:

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