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Over the course of my long career as a dating coach, I've showed literally hundreds of students how to approach women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been exceptionally successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to pick up women on a daily basis -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! It's been gratifying to watch very introverted students of mine, who were previously too anxious to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach machines" who could meet new girls every day (even just walking down the street!) and always rack up phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands. But any guy's confidence can be rocked to its core when he sees an incredibly sexy female that he wants to approach and begin a conversation with.I'm not talking about an everday girl here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of female who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the area to stop and look. What's the most effective way to approach a hottie like THAT? The answer, in truth, is rather straightforward: you use the same approach strategies that I advise you use with any female, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" techniques to get her engaged in the interaction with you, are going to use two special tactics -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her tremendous beauty won't even be a factor. I know you're probably wondering what Teases and Cold Reads are. Well, they're two very dominant moves that you should use when you flirt with women. Essentially, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons." For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their brains: that you are NOT an ordinary guy who is bowled over and staggered by how hot she is. If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not loathsome -- you're treating her as you would treat an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a long time, you're naturally going to tease and joke around with that person. By using Teases with a sexy stunner, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person. This is the opposite of how most men behave around a super hot girl. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so fearful of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up! As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a girl about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess. When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS deep, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on. So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to launch the conversation -- and there are many of of these in my seduction manual -- you'll use a Transition technique to move things onto the right theme. Then, you can make use of Teases and Cold Reads: TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I misjudged you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the subject) COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can sense that a lot of people get the wrong impression of you when they first see you. You have this tough exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath." (This Cold Read is very effective with beautiful girls, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.) It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. Whenever you blend these strategies with other effective conversational tactics, you have the blueprint for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction buttons" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and from that point on, you'll be able to guide this wherever you want it to go. Click Here - Learn The Secret of Approaching Women
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