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What's the difference between a Russian woman and an American woman you meet in a local bar? The Russian women is hotter, in better shape and won't reject you as quickly. She might be in your country for her job or to study, but regardless of why she is here her looks wil attract attention anytime she goes out. Just how is she different from the girls you normally date? Take a look at the profiles of any woman on this dating site and you will see comments such as 'I am looking for an honest, loving, generous, tender and attractive man'. Russian women want a man who will romance them and are raised with the knight in shining armour ideals. Try to pick her up like the local trailer trash and you will get shot down very quickly. It does not matter what their heritage or religion is, all women around the world want to be pursued by their man to some degree. Russian women just have loftier ideals when it comes to love. Getting her attention by by the charming, witty man she is looking for is eacy though. All you have to do is to be able to hold an interesting conversation when you first meet. If the idea of talking to a attractive women makes you panic, then here are a couple of pointers. Remember To Listen It is easy to start a conversation with a beautiful woman, just say hi if you don't know what else to say. But if you are going to have any chance at all of getting past that opening greeting, then you are going to have to know how to have an interesting conversation. The most important word of advice I can offer you here is to remember is that a conversation has 2 sides. If you speak without listening, then you are lecturing. If you speak and listen, but ignore the other side of the conversation, you are arguing. If you speak and listen with interest what is being said, then you are having a conversation. The first two are useless when trying to pickup women. Just remember that your ears outnumber your mouth 2:1. It is a useful thought to keep in mind if you continually crash and burn with women. The point I am trying to get at is a conversation is 2 sided. In an average day, a woman will talking twice as much as a man so don't feel pressured to do all of the talking. If she shows that she is interested when you say hello (and most women won't - it is a numbers game), then maintain the conversation with open ended questions. Ask Questions What is an open ended question? It is a question that you can not answer with a simple yes or now and requires that you provide information back. If you walk into a store and the sales person asks if you would like some help, what do you normally say? No thanks. Or if you feel embarrassed about such a short answer, you can say 'no thanks, I am just looking'. If it is only if you are REALLY interested and came in for something specific will you give a specific answer. The salesperson asked a closed ended question. Now what happens if they ask a more more specific question such as 'we have some great specials on today, what are you looking for'? You can still shut down the convesation if you are not interested, but the opportunity for a bargain might mean you give a real answer back. You haven't said no which is the end of the sales process, so the salesperson is free to continue. The same rules apply in meeting women. Ask a question to show interest and avoid the dead ends. In dating, this is called verbal tennis. Each time she says something, add to it and then direct the conversation back to her with another question. It takes practice to make this feel effortless, so put some effort into it with a buddy. Sit down and start a game where you ask a question. The other person answers the question and then asks a related question. You have to come up with the answer and new questions quickly - the first person who can't come up with a new question loses. Now here is a little interesting bit. Do you own a company or are you a manager at work? This is also a great way to foster communication in the workplace. Not only can you use it to develop a better work environment, but you can take part in your own team building exercise to improve your dating game. Follow Alex's experiences in dating nice Russian girls at Hot Russian dating. Alex is also the author of Hot Russians dating scammers guide, essential reading for anyone interested in protecting themselves online.
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