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Dating Russian women online is not really that different to dating someone locally. You see her, you introduce yourself, you work out if there is mutural attraction and start to get to know each other. The rules of attraction are universal and apply if you are talking through email or chatting in a bar. Online might share most of the chemistry of live dating, but it also shares the pitfalls. For the inexperienced not familiar with this, everything might be looking okay and suddenly her interest goes ice cold. Her emails are short and only come occasionally. Your girlfriend won't reply to your texts regardless of how hard you try to get the chemistry back again. You might get the "I only see you as a friend" email or even worse, she ignores you completely. What Did You Do Wrong? To answer this question, lets look at how men kill a relationship and what you can do to avoid these mistakes. Trying To Impress Her She comes from a poor background and only earns a few dollars an hour, so she will swoon when you impress her with your nice car and house. Right? Wrong. If you try and impress her with your material possessions then you are just going to attract the dating scammers. The real women who would like a long term partner are interested in relationships and a personal bond, not your bank balance. Fill your emails which descriptions of what you own and she will quickly lose interest. It's All About Me Online relationships are just the same as dating someone locally when you are getting to know them. True, you miss out on the body language when laughs or flirts with you, but that is what web-cams are for. So if you have made this mistake in past relationships then you are likely to do the same when dating online. And that blunder is trying to impress her by talking about yourself too much. Attempt to be too interesting and you will drive off your date as easily it will drive off your internet girlfriend. In virtually any partnership, sometimes you need to stop talking and pay attention. Are you simply talking all about yourself or are you actually reading what she is writing and forming a real conversation around that? Your conversations have to be well balanced if you want to fulfill her emotional expectations. If you don't then she will just delete your messages and look for a man who will. Agreeing With Everything She Says Universal law of dating number 2 - all women test men. It is not a written test and there are no answers. But it is a test to see if you are worth getting to know more amongst the crowd of men vying for her attention. Your first test is - are you capable of standing up for what you think. Goal oriented men will express their opinions. They will avoid being aggressive about presenting their thoughts, but they will give their opinion in a dominant way. So if you find yourself agreeing with everything a woman says, she will quickly lose interest. Look at this way, if you are similar in every facet, what do you have to talk about? There are no differences of opinion to create an interesting conversation. That's the best case scenario. The worst case is you deliberate avoid disagreeing with her or try and find out what she thinks first before stating your opinion. What you are doing her is giving her the lead in the relationship. She wants you to lead and act like a man. Don't give her your masculinity unless you like calling her 'mistress'. Follow Alex's experiences in dating Russian and Ukrainian women at Hot Russian dating. Alex is also the author of the Hot Russian official anti scam guide. This is essential reading for anyone concerned about Russian bride scams and protecting themselves online.
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