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I picked up the paper the other day and noticed a beautiful, even stunning woman was talking about her engagement to a well known DJ. She is stunning, he's just a regular guy. She's tall, he's short. But the look she had in the photo of them together was a mix of admiration and lust. So how do you make yourself irrestable to women? Your answer is easy - be a real man. If a short DJ can do it, why not you? When dating face to face, being a man is about being an alpha male. Online dating is a little more subtle, but you still have to show her you are the man she wants to get to know above everyone else. Don't Wait For Her To Show Interest Do you fear rejection? And if you do, do you show it online by sending a very short introduction letter and see if she responds before putting in some real effort? Why? If you are genuinely interested in her, show it. Think about this from her perspective for a moment. In the few weeks after she joins, she will recieve several emails from different men. Most will describe themselves clearly and show how focused they are on their personal and professional goals. Your short email will be a whisper in a noisy crowd. She will answer you if she is very attracted to you, but she might even forget to do this if she is busy replying to the men who put some real effort in. If you are attracted to her, go for it and let her deal with how she feels about you. Don't be the guy who holds your cards to your chest before you think you have a winning hand. She probably thinks you are not genuinely interested and will move on to someone else. Most woman want a man who will lead the interaction and risk some rejection to go after what he wants. Have Your Own Opinions Letting her know you are interested is crucial to the success of an internet relationship. Letting her walk all over you isn't. Yet it is amazing the amount of guys that will agree with everything a woman says to avoid scaring her off. Even worse is actually agreeing with what she says just to gauge what she thinks about a topic. Act like a man and express what you think. Be comfortable with your opinions but receptive enough to understand other people's point of view. If you simply try and not rock the boat, she will spot that a mile away and quickly look for someone else. Don't Be Too Available Russian women value men who take their obligations responsibly. It shows you will be a dependable father and partner who looks after his family. What this means for you is don't ignore your responsibilities just to talk to her. You may want to chat to her a lot more, but don't end up being the type of man that puts off a family dinner with your parents just so you can be on the net when it is convenient for her and then proudly tell her that. Don't be the type of guy who immediately sends back text messages regardless of how busy you are. Now I am not saying you should play hard to get. What I am saying is that you should make it clear that you have your life to lead and it does not resolve around her. Be willing to find a compromise to adjust your life to fit her in. But don't rearrange it to focus on another person. Follow Alex's story of dating beautiful Russian women at Hot Russian Dating. If you are intersted in following in Alex's footsteps, why not check out some Russian travel ideas where you can spend your next holiday surrounded by beautiful single women.
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