Getting to know a Russian woman online has so many benefits. Okay, she be on the other side of the planet but this is quickly outweighed by the benefits of getting to know this beautiful woman. The long toned legs, the inviting smile – all these factors fit together to make a perfect partner. Now the average American bachelor might not be use to this type of woman. So it is not unusual for a man new to dating Russian women to start blurting out the wrong things. To avoid complete failure, here are three greattips - Don't Ever Talk About Your Ex Yes, I understand. Your ex-wife is the bitch from hell. She got the house, the kids, the dog and just about everything else. But don't say bad things about her to your Russian girlfriend – it proves you respect women in her eyes. But just to show you how confusing women can be, the opposite is not true. If you have close female friends including your ex's, it is a good idea not to mention them that much. The last thing she wants to hear is how much time you enjoy spending with other women. The best way to avoid disaster is avoid the topic all together. If she asks you in your first couple of emails, give a respectful and neutral reply. You could use I enjoy spending time with my friends and family or I have 2 beautiful children from my past relationship – family is an important part of my life. Highlight the positives, not the ugly history. How Many Men Is She Talking To? An online dating site is really just a forum for men and women to meet. Browse through the profiles on any site – how many women are you attracted to? 10? 20? I am going to guess it is more than 1. Now stop and think what it is like for the woman you are writing to. If you send an email to at least 10 women you are interested in, then it is likely that those women would also receive at least 10 emails from other men just like you. You may be who she chooses in the end, but she will take her time in getting to know those men who made the effort to write to her. She will cull those from her contact list she does not feel a connection with until she is left with one person to get to know in more detail – you. For some men, this process can drive them crazy. But be careful here – jealousy is a relationship killer. She is not chatting to other men and hiding it from you. You know exactly what is going on and are probably doing the same. The key is not to pester her about it. Letit happen in her own time. If you force the issue early on, you are the one she will cull. How Much Long Distance Dating Costs You have to remember that Russia is not America. The language is different. The landscape is different. And so is the culture. Part of understanding her and her culture is understanding how she might interpret what you say. For example, if you say flights to Russia are expensive, what you mean is that it will take you a few months before you can save for it. Her interpretation however is that you have just said you will never be able to afford it. Cash is still king inRussia. Even the idea of taking out a home loan has only gained popularity in the last few years. Previously they bought their homes with bucket loads of cash. So the concept of credit is still new to her. Your new girlfriend was brought up with a mindset that 'expensive' meant that you would never be able to pay cash for it. Tell her that flights are expensive and she will think you are not going to visit her and not serious about a relationship. The key here is avoid saying something is expensive. If you have to save for 3 to 6 months before you could afford to go, simply say you have other obligations until you are ready. Are you interested in dating a beautiful Russian woman? Come and check out Hot Russian Dating - you can set up a free proile in a few minutes and browse our 15000 members.
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