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For a long time, every weekend, I always take one day with his son to study Xinhua Bookstore. "Tell the child, you are really great" is in such circumstances to meet with me.initially, but unconsciously, I was the book described in the case of a child's education by attracting more of what many mothers are shocked, they, word by word scrutiny. First of all, the good sister would like to tell parents is that children today grow up in the mind the existence of five major deficiencies: the lack of a happy childhood, lack of motivation, lack of spiritual culture, lack of family communication and the lack of a sense of accomplishment.said that today's children there are still "three three small" phenomenon, more and more living space, the growth of the space is getting smaller and smaller; more and more living space, the soul is getting smaller and smaller volume; to learn more and more pressure big motivation is getting smaller and smaller. Was heavy on children's learning, hobby classes to occupy, not the time to read, exercise, get close to nature, which are contrary to the child's nature, will certainly have a negative impact on their development. She advised the parents of six. Children in education, the adults important than success, growth important than the results experienced important than the rank and pay than to give an important, important dialogue is better than confrontation, an important incentive than the accused. In the "Tell a child, you are really great," the book the greatest impact for me, memory is the most their parents to the punch line or two, one is: enjoy your son, his son said: "son No son is not the same! "Another one is: enjoy your daughter, her daughter said:" There is a good Indoor play equipmentIndoor play equipment! "This has always been firmly of the mind in my heart, and in the days after the re-use, received unexpected results. In this book are deep feelings for me were "You are really great," There are three magic words: The first strength: "You are really great," people can learn. The book introduced the "Gang had a bad" surprised me, who do not know the Gang Shen plays and is a knowledgeable artist, how could a "bad"? And Wang Gang, themselves, however, his elementary school, the school all the teachers and parents really think that he is a bad, because a letter from the General Office of the Communist Party of China Central Committee, a letter from the teacher changed the Gang of views, and let Wang Gang, a person has changed since then. The moral of the story, let me aftertaste for a long time: Who does not want to learn, a compliment never been before, how can the self-confidence? For those students with poor learning, perhaps it is a sincere praise, let him really "stick" together. From then on I was standing on another point of view his own son to see my students, who found in their many really, my attitude has changed, the changes in the children more, they become confident, happy , as if life is full of sunshine everywhere. The second force: "You are really great," words can be excellent. An American teacher in high school recommended by the United States when the Chinese girl said, "I secured her to life" and this sentence has been deeply shaken by his father's heart. How he does not believe that just four months ago, his daughter, or a teacher criticized as "lack of mathematical mind," said dejected, "I weary of the" children. Just go to the United States soon, the girl got out of the first language! One teacher, "You are really great,"girls. Then she began the chemical get out frequently. The question was asked the teacher, the teacher told them: "Stephen asked, she knows everything." Teachers also pay tribute to the entire class shouted: "You should strive to it, otherwise you will have to go to work Stephen!." Yes, everyone is talented, but not everyone's talent can be awakened. Open the treasure of the formula as "sesame, open the door", as this sleeping giant wake-up also needs the secret, that is, "You are really great!" When our parents, when the teacher is not the reflection of your own behavior? We really should change the way we look at children, and strive to change themselves, learned to appreciate the look at every child. The third force: "You are really great," words can be friendly. There will always be around no one wants to say you can not, it does not work, and no one wants to be someone else agrees. International Commission on Education in the 21st Century the four pillars of education: learning to learn, learning to do, learning to live together and learn to survive. Among them, the core of learning to live together, that is, others will find the advantages of respect for diverse cultures, different people and learn to live together and learn acceptance of others. Today's children are only children, to let children learn how to very important contacts with commercial playgroundcommercial playground , so that the advantages found in a friend to see his lack of friends in good faith to learn to grow hand in hand with progress on the road. Certainly allow them to each other, mutual Yuet satisfied, then become a good friend of his lifetime. Reading the book, I changed my son's education is not always generous in his son: "You are really great!" When I tasted the sweetness of these words, my son become more and more self-confidence I also talk about these three children, gradually, the work has become easier, life became very happy. I am deeply felt, "You are really great," is how the magic words, it can work miracles! I do not know what kind of language used to praise this book, find it difficult to express their praise of this book rich in content and far-reaching. Dear friend, really hope you can take a look at this book, as your life will be full of sunshine everywhere, full of laughter.
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