But, aren't the strippers just out for your money? Of course they are -- AT FIRST. When you master the "Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction," you are going to quickly frame yourself as a non-customer -- a dude who understands the "strip club game", and the way these clubs operate, and you're going to know how to vibe with the strippers in a way that is charming, confident and playful.
When you use these tactics, within 60 seconds she'll completely stop thinking about trying to hustle you for a "lap dance" -- and she'll be chatting and laughing with you, just as if you were doing a successful pickup at your neighborhood bar.
The problem is that most guys buy into the myths and stereotypes about strippers, and this prohibits them from trying to take it to this "other level." I've hooked up with many strippers (I even had an HSG, Hot Stripper Girlfriend, who shared my house for a couple of years), and I comprehend their psychology like few men do.
I can also tell you that it is ABSOLUTELY possible for you to hook up with one of these girls -- whether it's strictly for sex, or you want to date some of these stunners.
However, first I need to break down the #1 MYTH about strippers, and explain the FACTS as I have come to understand them...
THE BIG STRIP CLUB MYTH: "Strippers never date customers."
Strippers say this all the time. "I don't date customers" is like the official mantra for girls who work in the strip clubs. Why? It's most likely because they feel that in order to maintain their sanity with this wild job, they should keep the two "sides" of their identity separate.
Outside of the club, she might be Marcie, the single mother who is taking classes at the local community college. Or, she might be Rebecca, the aspiring actress who is only stripping "temporarily" until she catches her big break.
But at the club, she puts on her makeup and G-string and she becomes "Mercedes" or "Destiny" or whatever her stage name may be. She tells herself that this is JUST A JOB because it would be too depressing to think that a stripper is all she is.
But in truth, do strippers wind up dating people they meet at the club from time to time? Definitely! I met my ex-girlfriend, the HSG, when she on duty at her club. All of her stripper friends had boyfriends who they met at work. The idea that strippers, as a hard-and-fast rule, do NOT date customers is nonsense.
I mean, why would a dancer NOT want to see you outside of her work, IF you strike her as a fun, cool, super-confident guy who makes her feel sexual chemistry? They key here is to prevail over her doubts about dating "customers." You have to present yourself as being NON JUDGMENTAL and you need to establish that you UNDERSTAND her line of work, and you know it's "just a job." (My "Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction" program is crammed with tactics for building rapport, comfort and sexual chemistry.)
The bottom line is, you act NOTHING like the "chump customers" who she will avoid at all costs as soon as she clocks out. You're uncommon. You're an original. She gets the feeling that you REALLY UNDERSTAND her. And that, my friend, the essence of how to pick up strippers and score in the strip clubs.
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