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It is very natural that young boys and girls dreams a lot about their marriage. Few of the many are able to get a partner of their choice. But, mostly fails. Now, success of marriage depends on how both the spouse are able to cooperate with each other. Unfortunately, these days, most of the marriages are breaking for one or more issues. One of the reasons is of the financial crises. Nowadays, things are becoming more costly because of inflation, thus, both the spouse had to go out for a work, so that, both can lead a happy life and can fulfil all the requirements in the life of their future. Now, it is not possible for both the spouse to go for work, in every family. Then, it also happens in some families that only one person is working and for him it is impossible to bear the expense of the whole family. Besides this, none of the couples are ready to cooperate with each other. Finally, most of the time they are busy in fighting with or shouting at each other. These are the main reasons why marriages are breaking. Added to these, some marriages are seen dissolved because of one of the partners, who is a drug addicted. A normal person cannot stay with a drug fiend. They can create a dreadful situation for the family. All these issues can break a marriage. Dissolution of the marriage not only places the couple into a stressful situation but other family members as well. When a couple is not having any minors or children, then it is fine, but the disastrous occur, if they are having a child. It is because, both the spouse and other family members can understand the situation and bear the pain of separation, but it is not same for the little ones. Children lead a stressful and painful situation when their parents are separated. For them, understanding the complicated nature of divorce(Scheidung) is beyond reach. They are only depressed with the thought that dad and mom are separating. This arouse a fear in them with thought that what will happen in future. Some children hope that everything will work out soon and parents will reunite back in future. They fails to understand that their parents have not separated to patch up in future. Sometimes, children opined a thought that it was their fault for which their parents have separated. They start thinking that if, they have got good marks in school exams or if, they have behaved in a good manner then this situation would not have occurred. With all these thoughts, children feel insecure. They are scared about their future. Children are so depressed with all these things that they fail to perform well in school examination. If, your child is an adult, then you will be astonished to see them taking the side of one parent and exhibiting hatred and anger for the other parent. After divorce(Scheidung), you have to handle all these with patience and care. It is best to speak the truth when you are interacting with your children. Truth in the sense that you must not give your child any false hope that you and your partner will patch up in future. While talking to your child, you must not say anything bad about your partner, it can worsen the situation. If, your child is grown up then you must speak with your child about the changes that they are going to see in their daily activities. You should be able to provide adequate time to your child, after separation. It is by talking to your child you can reduce their pain of separation. Mchl Mayers in his article, divorce(Scheidung), wrote about how dissolution of marriage takes place and how child suffers because of parental separation.
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