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Divorce is ahard reality not only for the adults but also for children. It won’t be toowrong to state that, the children are the worst affected. They are the ones, who have to make broader and major adjustments. The adults dissolving the relationship are well prepared and are well planned in most of the cases, but, the child is not the so. For him, it comes as a blow and he might get traumatized. You, as apparent have to ensure that he gets the right kind of parenting what he used to get before your marriage dissolved. The moral responsibility When child custody is given to one of the parents and also one parent reserves the right of primary care giver, then it would probably win the ego of an adult. But the child misses the estranged parent and his entireupbringing becomes lopsided and the following defects may be noticed in the child: •Incomplete Personality In many cases it has been observed that the child’s personality is directed by that of the parent who lives with the child. Hence morally it is to be understood and worked out that the child gets to spend almost equal quality time with both the parents. •Caught in the conflict When both parents keep fighting for the “custody” and “support” of the child, he seems to be caught between the two. He may undermine himself by the feeling of unwanted and unrequired. Morally, both the partners should ensure that the conflict in no case should reach the child and his self-esteem is not affected. •Addiction When such children grow up, they might turn out to be dependent upon substance abuse. Parents have a great moral responsibility to make sure that these children get enough moral support and care to keep them away from any such distractions. •Unsocial Such children may also do away from making any social circle because they might fear the questions which would come from people about their divorced parents. Even for this sake too, the couples have to take moral responsibility of extending all possible support and putting forth an example to the child that their relationship failed as husband and wife but they are quite responsible parents. •Preparedness Your children have to become responsible partners and parents when they grow up. Hence it is very important that you become their role models and they learn the important lessons of life from you and no one else. Rosy Brown is Social Media Expert and a Technical Writer. She believes in sharing his experience and intellects through live discussion or/and write ups. In this article she has discussed about relationship, divorce & marriage dissolved.
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