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Recently, I read an advice column wherein a letter writer was perturbed that her brother forgot her birthday. The columnist responded that the writer needed to forget about her birthday altogether and move on because--GASP!--birthdays just aren't that important. I beg to differ. Especially for those milestone years, birthdays are made especially for celebrating YOU, and what other day is designated for that purpose? So, when you have a friend or family member whose 30th birthday is approaching, it's time to pull out all the stops. How do you make a celebration like this one as memorable as you would like it to be? Well, the final decisions will all be up to you (and whoever else you are sharing planning duties with), but allow me to offer you a few suggestions. First, you obviously want to determine what kind of party-goer your friend or family member is. Are they more prone to enjoy a family picnic on the beach or are they going to want to live it up at a favorite restaurant? Though I can't speak for everyone, for most people in this particular stage of life, the demands of children and family life can make a special adults-only soiree a refreshing break. To make that happen, it's important to start looking for venues as far in advance as possible to avoid running out of options when the big day approaches. When you do begin to investigate spots in which to celebrate the special day, choose something with a fun ambiance--like one with a live band--and plenty of amenities. You can indulge in valet parking or perhaps consider renting a limo for the birthday boy/girl. If the birthday boy/girl's big day is in the middle of week, then you may want to give them a gift pertaining to the party on the day itself--a new cocktail dress, a tailored suit or nice collared shirt, or a trip to their favorite salon so they can look smashing for their upcoming fete. Unless you are planning a surprise party, be sure to carefully consult your friend or family member about the guest list. This is their day to celebrate, so they should be able to share it with whomever they choose--or don't choose, as the case may be. Some people prefer intimate gatherings, while others want all of their loved ones, friends, coworkers, and acquaintances around them during this fun time. So find out which it is for them, but you should shoulder the burden of the invitations. For a formal event, make sure that you make the invitations equally formal. These suggestions will work for celebrating virtually any birthday, but they are especially apt for a milestone like 30 or 40. The thought is what counts ultimately--it's really true. But don't disregard birthdays, regardless! If you still don’t trust your own planning abilities, find the agency with best event planning Atlanta, Chicago, or St Louis can offer and let them do it for you.
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